Jun
04
2007
Since roughly 1970, approximately 20-30% of children live in single parent homes. The number varies from study to study and country to country. More of those are female than male, but again the numbers vary substantially from one study to the next. Whatever the sex of the parent, parenting alone raises some unique challenges.
Since most [...]
Jun
03
2007
Most child development professionals, following a study by Thomas and Chess in the 1950s, hold that temperament is inborn. Personality, by contrast, is influenced by environment and self-development.
The characteristics of temperament - nine categories, including Activity Level, Sensitivity, Adaptability, and others - are sometimes regarded by parents as a source of frustration, since they are [...]
Jun
03
2007
Being a step-parent is somewhat like being in middle management - you get the complaints from ‘above’ and ‘below’. One way out of this dilemma is to step out from the middle and simply be part of ’senior management’. Successful employment of that strategy will require cooperation from the biological parent. But if you don’t [...]
Jun
02
2007
In the past 40 years, roughly since the 1960s, parenting (along with dozens of other life issues) has undergone a revolution in thinking. Traditional methods were questioned, in many cases rejected, and a spirit of experimentation resulted in the adoption of many alternatives.
Many people during the 1960s began to believe that the restrictive, almost Victorian [...]
Jun
01
2007
Sometimes it’s surprising that the divorce rate isn’t actually higher than it is (about 46% in the U.S.). Assuming it isn’t just inertia on the part of the 54%, it’s a tribute to the willingness of so many couples to work out their differences.
Fortunately, most parents will agree on one thing: the children should not [...]