Aug 03 2009
Simple Ways Parents Can Nurture Kids’ Self Esteem
(ARA) – Most parents know that self esteem is important for a child’s academic, social and emotional success. However, when it comes to nurturing their child’s self esteem, empowering them to be themselves and encouraging them to follow their dreams, it’s easy for parents to feel a bit lost. A few simple and positive steps are all it takes to start your child on the path to confidence.
* Praise your child often and be descriptive
Parents are generally quick to tell their children when they’ve done something wrong, but may forget to give kids positive messages. Be descriptive in your positive praise — tell kids you like the way they completed a chore, applaud a hobby they show interest in and point out when they’ve made a good choice.
* Teach good decision-making skills
We all make decisions every day, but kids don’t often realize that’s what they’re doing. When you see your child in a situation where they need to make a decision, help them clarify the problem and the choices they can make. Discuss the possible solutions and the consequences of each. When your child chooses a course of action, respect his decision. If your child is unhappy with the results, you can discuss how he or she may have done things differently.
* Encourage kids to follow their dreams
Pay attention to what your child’s interests are and look for innovative ways to empower them to follow their dreams. If your child likes music, help him or her find their voice through a range of musical experiences such as listening to a Kidz Bop CD — a collection of their favorite popular songs, sung by kids for kids, which is available for a limited time in a McDonald’s Happy Meal. Sing along with them in the car to encourage them along.
* Take them seriously
While children aren’t little adults, their feelings, emotions and opinions should still be taken seriously. Listen to what your child has to say and avoid dismissing their thoughts or feelings as “kid stuff” or “just a phase.” Strive to have a real conversation.
* Be a good role model
When you feel good about yourself, your children know it. If you make a mistake, use it as a teaching moment. Accept responsibility and talk to your child about what you learned from your misstep.
* Be there
When it comes to spending time with your child, quality and quantity both count. Being there during the small, silly moments is just as important as being present for the big milestones. Occasionally encourage each other to play with your food at the dinner table, especially if it creates a fun, together-moment.
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The “praise often” tip is the one I failed so miserably at when raising our children. I was more concerned with making sure they “were doing things right.” Hopefully I can learn from that mistake with my grandchildren.